The second season of VH1′s Love and Hip Hop kicked off a few weeks ago and the running theme so far is CATFIGHT! It seems every one of the ladies on the show is fighting.
Let’s see, there are at least five beefs going on between the ladies. There is the Emily and Kimbella. The Olivia and Somaya beef. Then we have Chrissy who is beefing with just about everyone – Yandy, Kimbella and Momma Jones.
Ladies, are you serious? It’s time out for all this fighting between black women! I can see how tempers could flare and feelings could be hurt in several of the quarrels – with the exception of Olivia and Somaya … Liv is just a hater. But really, these ladies are too old to be resorting to throwing punches. That’s classless and so very unladylike. Only kids throw punches and call names when they are angry. And if we are keeping it a hunned, anger is a secondary emotion that is used to cover up pain and hurt. We are taught to never let anyone know they hurt you so we turn to anger, but in reality, the best way to deal with hurt is to acknowledge it and let the person know that you are hurt.
words by: Brandi Williams
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